Thoughts of the day:
Something has been bugging me for the last few days. I have been really stressed lately and just needed some rest and relaxation; so the other day, when a friend asked me how I was doing, I told him that things were going better and I wasn’t as busy as before. When I mentioned how stressed out I’ve been, he casually mentioned that sex might fix the problem. When I informed him that sex is not the solution to everything and I wasn’t interested, he said in response, and I quote, “I know, the odd part of your statement is that despite the mood you are in, you really NEED to have sex. It will not alleviate the pressure but modify your perspective. I am not suggesting that you act upon that nor am I trying to lure you into sex. I know you have many sources.”
Puh-leeze! Sex is not always the answer. I need to relax. I need to calm down. I need to sleep. Sex takes energy, even in SL. It takes concentration to keep up with the emotes and if you are tired, you are not in the mood to have “pixel sex.” Sometimes a simple day of relaxing and playing games is better. I’m not sure which was worse: his implication that I was a whore who could get sex from anywhere I wanted, or his sexist assumption that sex will cure my “moodiness”; either way, it bugged me more than I thought it would, and I’ve been feeling dirty and annoyed ever since.
Today, I decided to wear the Cherry’s Blossom Lona Swimsuit and towel available at Gacha Good Monthly Event, my Eilla sunglasses, and my new “doggy” bag from Reign. A nice ensemble for any day at the beach. As always, you can find the information for location and outfit below. Enjoy!
Mesh Head: .LeLutka.Head.Simone 2.7
Mesh Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Hair: Lamb. Ask
Eyes: IKON Charm Eyes Denim
Skin: Glam Affair – Naira – Lelutka Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (FLF)
Swimsuit: :Cherry’s Blossom: Lona Swimsuit and towel Gacha (Available at Gacha Good Monthly Event)
Anklet: !Rebel Hope – Starfish Beach Anklet_Maitreya Flat Feet (FaMeshed anniversary gift)
Rings: lassitude & ennui Bewitched love ring set
Beach bag: REIGN.- BEACH BAG DOGGY BOW (SOLID) – #13
Sunglasses: [Z O O M] Eilla Glasses
Location: Baja Norte is a part of a series of sims by Lauren Benthem that consists of Baja Norte, Baja Cove, Baja Bay, Baja Sands & Baja Shore, Storybrooke Gardens, Everwinter, Arranmore and Netherwood. You can find links to Ms. Bentham’s flickr groups for these sims. To learn more visit Baja Norte for a notecard with landmarks and more. Note: Some people may experience slower performance on older computers due to the graphic intense environments at these sims, but they are well worth visiting. Just lower your settings and enjoy!
Flickr Baja Norte, Baja Cove, Baja Bay, Baja Sands & Baja Shore : https://www.flickr.com/groups/baja_norte_official/
Flickr Storybrooke Gardens: https://www.flickr.com/groups/storybrooke_gardens_official/
Flickr Everwinter: https://www.flickr.com/groups/everwinter_official/pool/
Flickr Arranmore: https://www.flickr.com/groups/arranmore_official/
Flickr Netherwood: https://www.flickr.com/groups/netherwood_official/