It amazes me that some people have such a lack of boundaries and respect for others that they violate the personal space of others. They touch you in IM or they come after you for sex, get offended when they are turned down and become verbally abusive. Girls (and guys a like) all deserve and have the right to personal privacy and respect for their boundaries. It annoys me when someone violates my boundaries by invading my personal space. People I don’t know or hardly know telling me that I’m “beautiful” when they don’t even know me or have never even talked to me before. Asking me for sex or implying that I deserve what I get if I wear an outfit that is revealing.
It upsets me when people say that if you wear a short skirt or a shirt that is open, you get what you deserve. No one deserves to be sexually harassed in any way and people with this asinine philosophy have the opinion that people who get into tough situations get what they deserve if they dress revealing. This thought process is like saying a rape victim got what she or he deserved because they wore the wrong outfit, they were in the wrong place, they acted a certain way. No means no, no matter what you are wearing, how you are acting, where you go and what you are doing. I repeat, NO means NO. It does not mean, “Oh sure, I’m saying it but I really mean yes.” It literally means no. It is a two letter word that is a negative form saying no.
Yesterday, a friend shared the Submissive Bill of Rights with me, which has a lot of truth to it. It says that I have the right to be treated with respect. Everyone deserves this. We are subs, not your doormat. We’re people too. All of us have thoughts, feelings, beliefs. We just have an added aspect of having a Daddy Dom or a Dom for that matter. We also have the right to respect ourselves. No one has the right to take that away from you. It is vital to remember that when dealing with people in SL sometimes, I think. The most important part of the Submissive Bill of Rights is the right to be safe, in my opinion. If you don’t feel safe, you can’t be the other. You can’t open up and be free with yourself and with your Dom. It’s important to feel safe at all times.
Today, I bring you my rebellious nature, my inner free woman, to the forefront as I play guitar in a revealing outfit from my sponsor, .SALT. Adding hair from Truth available at Uber, makeup from Alaskametro and nails from my sponsor, Go Frock Yourself, and you have an outfit perfect for any rebellious soul.
Rock on! As always, my credits are below and see my Flickr for a full resolution version! Enjoy!
Head: CATWA HEAD Tala v3.2
Body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Eyes Appliers: . MILA . Wet Eyes OMEGA
Skin: amara beauty – Foxy v2 03 Catwa Applier
Hair: TRUTH HAIR – Livia (Uber)
Makeup: alaskametro<3 “#onfleek” makeup for Catwa
Nails: Go Frock Yourself – Chevron Red Nail Appliers – Sponsor
Windlight: Satomi’s 2017 FFXV
Pose and Prop: BellePoses – Morissette
~BAZAR~ Quality homes and furniture – Forest Dining set pieces: Flower pot, Wine bottles, Dining table